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Today on the show, we’re talking about red light issues in your relationships–and how to handle them.

Red light issues are things that should raise a big STOP in your life. These are behaviors in others that create an unhealthy dynamic for both of you.

We’ll be talking about:

  • The difference between loads and burdens
  • The difference between dysfunctional and dangerous
  • Using challenge and choice

We are in a series talking ALL about boundaries and how to be a peaceful, joyful person with your YES and your NO.

To help you along the way, I’ve created a FREE boundaries assessment for you that you can take as you listen to the series. So download it now and then jump in to the conversation. Just go to and grab it now–and then come back and listen in to the series.

For more on Boundaries, check out the book and workbook, written by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend.

Dr. Cloud also offers a course in Boundaries with a free 14-day trial to the community–cost effective and helpful! Check it out here:

Listen to last week’s episode: Why Boundaries are So Hard… and What to do About It


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